The dare asked me to become my husband's biggest fan. And whoa, to burn the negative list I wrote yesterday.
How hard was it to destroy the list?
I was so glad to do that! I hated having that list around. A super cool thing that happened was when I was burning the list in my sink, I felt relieved. It was a ceremony of my heart, a ritual cleansing, a way to let go, to let those negative things quite literally go up in smoke.
What are some positive experiences that you can celebrate in the life of your mate?
SOmething he is trying to be successful in right now is losing weight. He is going to the gym and watching his diet. I want him to be successful for himself.
How can you encourage them towards future successes?
I can be more affirming in his quest to lose weight.
I have definitely noticed a change in our relationship this week. For whatever reason, I feel on more solid footing. I think it is because I have truly switched my way of thinking to our marriage being between me and God and my husband and not just between me and my husband. God had always been there, but I have allowed by "humaness" to take over the forefront of my life like the roar of a fierce lion, and this week, I have let God become the fierce one at the forefront.
My "humaness" raises its ugly head now and again, but now it is my God that sends it packing like a lamb.
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